Episode #183: Attributes of Fathers! Featuring Mitchell Andersen
“So the ironic thing with fatherhood is I used to want to change the world and I realized, I have no control over anybody else. But with my kids, I genuinely have this moment in time, and I get to see daily their growth.”
Mitchell K. Andersen
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As parents, it is our responsibility to groom and guide our children into becoming responsible and successful members of society. While both mother and father play an equally important role in their children’s upbringing, fathers carry a unique perspective and set of life experiences that they can pass on to their children. Passing on life lessons is a critical aspect of parenting that fathers should take seriously. Here are some reasons why fathers should pass life lessons to their children.
1. Helping children navigate life challenges
Life is full of ups and downs. As our children grow and build their lives, they will encounter many challenges. As fathers, we can use our life experiences to teach our children how to navigate difficult situations. We’ve possibly been there before, done that, and are in a better position to give our children a roadmap on how to navigate tough times.
2. Setting a good example
Children learn by example. As fathers, we must set an excellent example for our children to follow. We can’t teach our children to be kind and honest if we don’t practice these values ourselves. Sharing our life lessons with our children is a sure way to model good behavior.
3. Preserving family values
Every family has values that they hold dear. Values such as honesty, hard work, respect, trust, and teamwork. Children learn family values by observing their parents and the behavior of those around them. As fathers, we have the responsibility to reinforce these values by sharing our own life lessons that have helped us live by these values.
4. Promoting a sense of identity
Children look up to their parents and appreciate learning about who they are and where they came from. Sharing our personal stories with our children, including our challenges, achievements, and lessons learned, helps our children understand and appreciate their roots. This, in turn, helps them form a sense of identity and helps them appreciate their family history and culture.
5. Preparing children for the future
Finally, as fathers, we must prepare our children for the future. We don’t know what the future holds, but we can teach our children the life skills they will need to be successful in whatever they choose to pursue. Our life lessons can equip our children with the skills, knowledge, and confidence to make sound decisions, overcome challenges, and pursue their dreams.
In summary, fathers play a vital role in the lives of their children, and passing on life lessons is crucial to help them grow into responsible and successful adults. The lessons we teach our children will undoubtedly have an impact on their future, and as fathers, we should take our responsibility seriously.
“It really is the pursuit the reason why the reason why I think the culmination is kind of for fathers is because I would argue that the absolute of fatherhood is that that means you have something which is your responsibility to pass on.”
Mitchell Andersen is the author of the book, “Attributes of Manhood; Stones That Build The Foundation To Weather Any Storm”.
The book aims to invite men to wrestle with five key attributes pulled from the Word of God pertinent for men to assume their rightful place once again in society and, more importantly, in the home.
Mitchell joins Audley on The Audacious Living Podcast to discuss the importance of fatherhood, passing on family values and being a true audacious man.
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